Thank You for Rejecting Me: Transform Pain Into Purpose and Learn to Fight for Yourself Paperback - 2021

From the rear cover

"Because rejection is inevitable, this book is a must-read!"
--Lauren Scruggs, New York Times bestselling author, wellness enthusiast, lifestyle blogger, and entrepreneur


Our stories are riddled with the sting of rejection. It's feeling like a failure or being heartbroken. It's being left out or misunderstood. It's the parent who neglected us or the person who betrayed our trust. It's even in the way we think or talk about ourselves and question our relationship with God.

Whether it happened in grade school or last week, rejection can leave deep scars that affect our relationships, our self-worth, and our identities for years to come. And while we can't control when rejection appears, we can control how we react when it does. With chapters that focus on some of life's biggest rejections--being betrayed, abused, misunderstood, heartbroken, sexually shamed, and many more--Thank You for Rejecting Me offers practical tools to heal from the past, take back your power, and walk in strength, victory, and love in the future.


"Kait flips the all-too-familiar relationship so many of us have with rejection. Thank you, Kait, for teaching us with grace and nuance that if we have the courage to press in, rejection can actually be one of our greatest allies." --Kat Harris, author of Sexless in the City and host of The Refined Collective podcast

"Kait has written a book that helps you look inward, deal with shame, and move forward with hope."--Jonathan Pokluda, host of the Becoming Something podcast and bestselling author of Welcome to Adulting and Outdated

"Thank You for Rejecting Me will show you how to live your boldest, bravest, and strongest life possible. My friends, this is a must-read!"--Mike Foster, author, counselor, and host of the Fun Therapy podcast


Kait Warman is a California-based relationship coach, online educator, speaker, and host of the Heart of Dating podcast. Her mission is to empower men and women to have the courage to own their story, walk in victory, thrive with purpose, and discover clarity and vision in their lives and relationships. This is her first book.